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It's Time to Root Into
Your Wildness 

Perhaps this is your experience:

#You want to connect to heal generational blocks, but nothing you've tried is working. 

#You're wary of online programs cause they are often emotionally unsafe and not trauma informed.

#You are interested in developing your ability to stay curious and connected in your relationships in life. 

#You are exploring ceremony and ritual and want to learn how to bring it into your life. 

#You aren't sure if you even HAVE loving and wise ancestors to support you.

#You don't have time for excess fluff in your life. This work needs to be potent and direct. 

a rooted and wild life might look like:


  • Freedom from the weight of your family's shadow

  • Having resilient and nourishing relationships

  • The ability to know and live by your values

  • Feeling ancestral support and unconditional love

  • A deeper sense of belonging

  • Trusting your intuition

  • Having the clarity to set boundaries 

  • The freedom to spend more time in nature

  • A spiritual practice that is in alignment for you and your lineages

Step into a space beyond time, held in ritual, and ripe with connection.

welcome to

Rooting your Ancestral Wild

A 6-week process to nourish yourself and your relationships

Cultivate the connections that give you a life of flow, manifestation and community.

What happens, week-by-week?

Session 1

What is this program about?
What leads to deeper rootedness?

Who are you, your story

Session 3

What is "Divine"
Animism and Ancestral connections
Sacred Wild and elemental beings

Session 5

Rituals and gatherings
4 aims of life

Belonging to groups and sub-groups


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Session 2

Intuition and self-trust
How to nourish yourself
Needs and wants

Session 4

Didactic, relational healing
Differentiation and enmeshment
Being with difference

Session 6

How to integrate this
Reflection and sharing
Designing a closing ritual and offerings


Who is Mallika?

Mallika is a curious and perceptive facilitator of healing, LMFT and creator of The Wild and Wise. She is initiated as a Dagara diviner, and has trained in psychology, Vedic traditions, group therapy, ancestral healing, ceremony and ritual, and more! She works with women to re-member their connection to self, ancestral wisdom and the Wild, incorporating shamanic journeying, rituals with the wild, dream analysis, psychological understanding, and therapeutic processing. 

Mallika has done years of healing and re-wilding specifically related to the mother archetype. Through her own healing and training, she has found the deeper peace and love she was longing for. Mallika says she does this work because she knows the desire to not feel alone; just like you, she wants to be known and connected to other women who are re-weaving a more connected, integrated and loving world.

This is for you if:

  • You are interested in authentic, meaningful relationships with others

  • You have high expectations of your closest friends and feel an unmet longing to be seen or heard 

  • Perfectionism is keeping you from your creativity

  • You've been interested in learning more about connecting to the other-than-human world 

  • You are ready to integrate a perspective of wellness that's based in indigenous knowledge

  • You are able to listen for what you have to learn 

This is not for you if:

  • You aren't really interested in relational work

  • You are turned off by words like prayer, blessing, ritual, sacred, ceremony, Divine, primal source, etc. 

  • You hope to elicit revenge or punishment on others for past wrongdoings

  • You have some really intense family wounding and want to interface directly with the wounded, suffering ancestors

  • You've never really been in psychotherapy and think it's too expensive for what it is

  • You want to circumvent your feelings, and just fix the problem.


1:1 Sanctuary
flexible schedule within a 3 month timeframe

* Intensives are more efficient and cost effective
* confidential, intimate witnessing of your personal experiences and family history

* opportunity to go at the right pace for you and your journey

*Welcome gift 

* 2 therapeutic intensives of 3 hours each
* Pre-call worksheet/journaling
* Voxer responses between sessions
* Personalized offering and ritual guidance
* Assistance designing a culminating ritual

Initial Sessions begin
February 8th, 2022
online or i
n person in Asheville, NC

Image by Thomas Bonometti

Group Vessel
7 week journey

* connection with other women, also on this journey
* opportunity to practice deep connection, being witnessed and safe ritual space

* 6 group calls (1.5 hours) Schedule Below
Pre-group worksheet to get things started
One private 1:1 session for ancestral assessment 
* 3 guided meditation journeys (audio only)
* 4 hour culminating group ritual 

Limited to 6 women to maintain intimacy
The next Group begins:
April 20th, 2022


Apply for 1:1 sanctuary Anytime

Initial sessions begin February 8th, 2022
Flexible schedule to meet your needs



Group Applications Open 
February 23rd, 2022!

Group Schedule

Our 6 group calls will happen on:​​

  • Wednesday April 20th at 1pm est, 10am pst

  • Wednesday April 27th at 1pm est

  • Wednesday May 4th at 1pm est

  • Wednesday May 11th at 1pm est

  • Wednesday May 18th at 1pm est

  • Wednesday May 25th at 1pm est


  • Our culminating 4 hour ritual will take place on Saturday June 4th at 1pm est, 10am pst

 What people are saying 

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1:1 client

This opens up a whole new ay of relating to the ancestors and a whole new world of possibilities. 

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Group member

Mallika's methods and approach allows her to meet us exactly where we are while allowing her to see and hear what we don't.

1:1 client

I find (Mallika's style) to be fluid in the best way possible, shifting along with my needs from session to session.

1:1 client

Mallika gently guides me into the dark corners within my self where my ego has been so good at convincing me not to go.

More about the program


  • Bring The Wild Codex to life

  • Assess and heal old ancestral wounds

  • Cultivate your relationship to The Wild

  • Reclaim belonging to the lands of your ancestors

  • Strengthen and clarify your intuition

  • Learn and practice ritual offerings

  • Cultivate nourishing relationships in your communities

  • Develop consistent practices that provide connection and grounding

The Wild Codex

Connection to


* Embodiment 

* Trusting Self

* Shadow Work  

* Boundary Setting

* Your Story

* Self-responsibility

* Spiritual nourishment

* Source of Eros

* Meaningful Work

Connection to Others

* Relational Dynamics


* Didactic Healing   

* Generational Patterns

* Being WITH Difference

* Interdependence 

* Connected Parenting

* Attachment Styles

Connection to   The Divine

* Defining "Divine"  

* Give and Receive Love   

* Ritual Containers

* Altars and Offerings  

* Song and Mantra 

* Myth and Story


*The Sacred Wild

* Animism

* Ancestral Wisdom

Connection to   The Community

* Belonging to Groups and Subgroups  

* 4 Aims of Life   

* Spoken and Unspoken Agreements

* Community Rituals  

* Manifesting Projects 

* Giving and Receiving

* Ethos

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What is animism?

Animism comes from the latin word "Anima" which means: breath, spirit or life. 
Animism is a point of view that aligns with the belief that animals, places and objects possess a distinct spiritual essence. Everything from water, rocks and trees to couches, concepts like envy and even words are seen as animated and alive. 
This perspective has been a staple in many indigenous ways of life, many of which are still practiced today, including the Japanese Shinto way of life. 


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